By Chris Alvarez
Can you still go out to clubs and bars?
Going out to clubs and bars was something I really enjoyed. It was a time when I could let loose, act crazy and hit on girls. 99.9% of the time I had to be drunk to do it. However, now I can act crazy without being drunk, can have fun while being sober, and can have enough self-confidence to approach women and accept being shot down.
That’s how I operate now. Nevertheless the ability to go out to bars and clubs can differ from person to person. Some people can go out, while others can’t. It all depends on what triggers you have and how well you deal with them. I would never say to someone that has one week sober that they are ok to go to a bar, I wasn’t ok to go out to clubs and bars at one week sober either. For many of us though, time has a way of helping you cope.
No matter how much sober time you accumulate, some people will never feel 100% comfortable with going to these places. Those people come to accept that fact and live perfectly happy lives.
So to answer the question; I can go to clubs and bars as long as I stay focused and know that I can’t drink and don’t need a drink either.
If you are a “normie” and would like to know more leave a comment and I will answer any questions you have.